THE INTERNET. . . .

The first thing that I want to clarify is that not everyone is guilty of what I am about to write. There are others like myself. We believe in the truth and regardless of what you may think of us truth telling folks, Most of the time, you will hear 95% of the truth from us.

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I am letting you know that we have our faults also, but we are who we are so there will never be any surprises. It is the truth tellers who often get surprised:).

I am often online an average of 5 hrs. a week rather from work or from home and I have discovered the exciting world of chating with the opposite sex. I guess one can say that since I am behind the computer, I can become anyone that I want to be. I've taken notice of a lot of thoughts and the conversations that happen online. I don't believe that men and women believe have the mess that they chat.

Then we get to the internet dating:). There is a lot of pretending with folks. I guess they lie to build their ownselves up. They lie about everything thinking that they will never see that person in person.

BUT. . . .

What if you discover that the very someone that you are chating with is the very someone that you want to develop a possible relationship with. That very same person that you have lied to? Your lies about who you are, what you look like, and some other personal things could prevent you from having something special. The trust factor becomes broken and you've lost out on someone and something that could have played a very intricate part in your life.

I've come across a lot of things since meeting people; men if you will; and they boggles my mind. Everyone wants perfection. I think that people feel that since it is the inter-net, they can order up an all ready made person exactly the way that they want.

Careful!

No one is perfect even if you go to a mail order bride agency to find you a wife or mate. Everyone has flaws and if you say you don't, then you are a lier. You've lost touch with reality.

For example:

You want a woman with all the curves in all the right places. The looks of Beyonce. You may get that, but what is her personality like? Is she a clean person (hygiene wise)? Can you say for sure that every Tom, Dick, and Harry in the place that she is from has slept with her? Is she money hungry? The list can go on and on, but in the mean time, you order up this person and you yourself maybe full of your own flaws. Your looks aren't what they use to be. You've gain weight and the middle of your stomach won't let you perform sexually in bed the way you use to and your game is not what it use to be.

This is not just directed toward men. This is for the females also. Trust me. I hate to say it, but I am being honest. We are at times worst than men.

It is not about money. It is not about looks. It is not about the size. It's about the person having the heart of God. It's about mutual respect and admiration for each other. It's about waiting on God to send that person to you.

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I often hear people say that the internet is the internet and you are liberal enough to show your bodies on that net with gusto. Especially the one with children. I see children on the net searching through stuff that they shouldn't be searching through. They sneak and do it at school and I know for sure at home. Your kids and their friends might find you. Most men like mystery. They don't like for their women to display themselves for the world to see. It becomes a one night stand and they won't take you home to see Mom.

HAVE A BLESS DAY!