I'm not a 100% today. I still have my bad times, but I have to remember that I am almost 2 months post-op. I can't complain because I am doing very well. I'm back at work and doing most anything that I want to do without getting too tired or stressed out. Most people that I talk to did not fair this well with that type of surgery. In fact I just lost a friend who had the same surgery that I had. She died from complications and not from the actual surgery. She was only 35 yrs. old and left behind a husband and 2 beautiful daugters. Did her death bother me? YES! It could have been me. The thought of that bothered me.
My thought is that society is so hell bent on the weight issue. It makes people sometimes go to the extreme to fit the norm. What is the norm? If you are anywhere between 50 to a 100 lbs over your idea weight, then you are considered obese. What does obese mean and who created that word? Well let's see. The word obese in the Webster Dictionary means excessively fat. It stems from the Latin word obesus and it is considered an adjective. Rightly so because it is discriptive. I could not find who created that word. Probably some doctor in a labratory stuffing some poor rat with some food.
So why did I decide to have the surgery? I did it for health reasons which is working out for me more than I could have ever imagine. The benefites of living a longer healthier life outweighs anything that I could have hoped for. It is just fortunate that I get all of the added advantages with it. A slimmer me, a happier me, and a more satisfied with myself me. Don't let anyone tell you anything different. Fat people are not real happy people. We shy away from society and we are not too confident in ourselves. I know cause I have been there and I am still here with it until all the weight is off of me. Lets just face it. . .people are so cruel. Adults and children alike are cruel. Children learn to be cruel because their Mothers and Fathers are the cruelist people they know, but have you ever notice that society in a whole are cruel people?
My neighbors think that I am sick because the weight is dropping off. I see them staring at me. I guess they feel sorry for me. Sorry enough that the morons cut my grass for me. They've even started acting like real people LOL LOL. Another added benefit right? I've called the Law on them almost every 3rd day. Would you cut my grass? If that is not the reason, then I have to say that God has touched their hearts:).
Have a Bless Day!
My thought is that society is so hell bent on the weight issue. It makes people sometimes go to the extreme to fit the norm. What is the norm? If you are anywhere between 50 to a 100 lbs over your idea weight, then you are considered obese. What does obese mean and who created that word? Well let's see. The word obese in the Webster Dictionary means excessively fat. It stems from the Latin word obesus and it is considered an adjective. Rightly so because it is discriptive. I could not find who created that word. Probably some doctor in a labratory stuffing some poor rat with some food.
So why did I decide to have the surgery? I did it for health reasons which is working out for me more than I could have ever imagine. The benefites of living a longer healthier life outweighs anything that I could have hoped for. It is just fortunate that I get all of the added advantages with it. A slimmer me, a happier me, and a more satisfied with myself me. Don't let anyone tell you anything different. Fat people are not real happy people. We shy away from society and we are not too confident in ourselves. I know cause I have been there and I am still here with it until all the weight is off of me. Lets just face it. . .people are so cruel. Adults and children alike are cruel. Children learn to be cruel because their Mothers and Fathers are the cruelist people they know, but have you ever notice that society in a whole are cruel people?
My neighbors think that I am sick because the weight is dropping off. I see them staring at me. I guess they feel sorry for me. Sorry enough that the morons cut my grass for me. They've even started acting like real people LOL LOL. Another added benefit right? I've called the Law on them almost every 3rd day. Would you cut my grass? If that is not the reason, then I have to say that God has touched their hearts:).
Have a Bless Day!
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